When a man becomes a father

One day I chatted with a friend who had become a father. That time we talked more about his children. From his love for his children, I realized a lot, at least the special kind of love for children when men became fathers. This realization allows me to understand my father's unusual love for me more.

He has only one little girl, and he has become more fond of his little girl when the patriarchal mind still exists. He said, "After a busy day at work, at least there is a concern in my heart. I always want to know what is wrong with the family. That feeling is stronger than that of my wife. After I got married, my passion for my wife is no longer in love. It ’s been warm. After all, life is very real. Without the pledge of the Shanmeng pre-marriage, without Qingqing, we and me, some are more cumbersome in life, and some are more responsible for the family. The birth of my daughter makes me Feel the greatness of being a father. "

He said: "I watched my wife's belly bulge every day. When my daughter landed, she faced her with a strong sense of honor and responsibility. She had been eagerly looking forward to her coming before she was born. Although I already knew that I was going to get a girl, I was still very excited. After all, that was my daughter. It ’s still a good girl, more obedient, easier to tune than a boy, and her mouth is sweet, so cute. "

When I said this, I saw his expression of pride in his children. Even the corners of the eyes are full of happiness. The glory of a father.

He said, "Don't believe it, some men, even the wife may not be able to control him, but the child can control it." I heard laughter. He really said to me with a serious face, "Really. The child is my nemesis. Many bad habits have to be changed for her. I thought when I married my wife, I smoked fiercely, but there were children. I wo n’t dare to smoke in the future. For the sake of the child, after all, it ’s my child. I do n’t want her to become a fool by smoking my second-hand smoke. I thought my wife was still pulling me so hard that I was desperately trying to quit I still did n’t want to put it down. I did n’t expect this little thing to let me completely give up my habit of smoking for her. ”I looked at this father-level character, I believe what he said is true. Because my father is a good example.

My father, when he had not become a father, was also a man who smoked and drank very hard. Since he had me, his father's bad habits have been changed one by one. Speaking of which, my father's quitting smoking also has my credit. I remember that at that time, for the sake of my father ’s health, my mother made it mandatory for my father not to smoke. But my father's cigarette addiction was very big. I often secretly took a few sips from my mother, and I was usually my father's junior. I took my father wherever he went. When I went to my uncle ’s house, my uncle handed the cigarette to my father. My father always politely said that he was quitting smoking. I could n’t push it. I also secretly looked at what I meant. . "Uncle, my mother said, for the sake of his father's health, he can't smoke." Later everyone knew that our family had a small follower monitoring his father's smoking cessation actions. Even better, every time I saw my father secretly carrying his mother to take a few cigarettes to relieve cigarette addiction, I kept quiet in front of my father, but turned around and immediately went to inform my mother. With the help of my mother and me, my father finally gave up smoking. This good habit has been retained until now, so our family is still a clean non-smoking area.

"Daughter is a good girl. Although she is very tired when she returns home every day, she still has to look at my sweetheart baby. She will wait for me every day to let me kiss and rest. Every day, I haven't returned home. , Her phone will be rushed over. She will whisper and ask, "When will Dad come back? I miss you so much. Dad has worked hard, and when I come back, I will beat you back." Her mouth is terribly sweet, and She also coaxes people happy and makes people very fond of it. Every time she is on a business trip, she is the one who is most worried about. She hopes that she will live well and grow up healthy and happy. "

"It ’s not easy for a man to be a son, son-in-law, husband, and father. The only thing that is most rewarding is to be a father. Watching the birth of a daughter, watching her growing up. I always want to treat all Love is allotted to her, and she always wants to protect her well. She is my greatest achievement in my life "

He scratched his head and smiled a little embarrassedly and said, "I don't know if she grows up. Will I be willing when I want to marry? I have a daughter who is so old, and I will marry if I want to marry. Father's is the most reluctant. "We all laughed at the end.

I realized why my father always cared for me so much and why he gave me so much love. When a man becomes a father, his heart is not just a simple responsibility, but more of it is the love and care for the child's affection that is thicker than water.